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  • #1280454
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
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    The information is not inherently negative. How it’s said could impart negativity.

    #1280468
    Health
    Participant

    SG -“Carlos and Gabby closed. There is a new dairy place there, haven’t tried it (yet).”

    What’s the reason they closed down? I’d assume because it was in that corner, a bad location!
    So Upper Crust will have the same problem.

    #1280480
    Lilmod Ulelamaid
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    What is the difference between saying “store x sells item “a” cheaper than store y does” (which you think is inherently fine) and writing that I charge more for my product than someone else does (which you think is only okay l’toeles)?

    #1280519
    Joseph
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    I’m not saying; I’m questioning.

    #1280567
    Lilmod Ulelamaid
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    Joseph, you wrote as follows:

    “There’s zero problem making a public announcement from the Bimah that Reuven charges $2 for apples while Shimon charges $3 for apples, assuming both prices are within halachicly accepted parameters?”

    That is a statement, not a question.

    #1280572
    Joseph
    Participant

    Lilmod, did you miss noticing the question mark in both my comment and in your quote of my comment?

    #1280582
    Joseph
    Participant

    Lilmod – did you miss noticing the question mark in both my comment and in your quote of my comment?

    #1280654
    Lilmod Ulelamaid
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    Joseph, I probably did not notice the question mark for the following reason: the sentence started off with “There’s zero problem..”

    In english (to the best of my knowledge) such a statement can not end with a question mark. It is true that in yinglish, it can 🙂 , but I am not the biggest expert on yinglish and usually stick to english.

    Also, if it was a question, it’s a bit odd to have the second question right afterwards before the first question was answered. It makes it sound like you are already assuming that the answer to the first question was yes. If you had started the second question with the words “if so..”, your meaning would have more understandable.

    In any case, I understand now that it was a question. Thank you for clarifying. I think the answer is “no”. There is not “zero problem” with it, and in fact I think it would be a problem.

    #1280655
    Lilmod Ulelamaid
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    I answered above.

    #1280746
    Joseph
    Participant

    Lilmod, your English lesson is incorrect. Haifagirl can back me up on this. 🤣 My comment, as a question indicated with a question mark, is linguistically correct in posing and wording.

    #1280752
    Lilmod Ulelamaid
    Participant

    I’m not sure. I’ll have to ask my mom – she’s an expert on correct english.

    In any case, it’s certainly not the normal way to phrase a question. Certainly not this type of question. Maybe if I had previously written that I thought there was zero problem with the case in question, it would make sense to throw it back at me and ask rhetorically, “There’s zero problem…?”

    But under the circumstances it’s a strange way to phrase the question. It would have made much more sense to write, “is there any problem with …..” “If not, then…”

    On second thought, I’m not asking my mother. I don’t want to tell her about the CR. Let’s ask Haifagirl instead.

    #1280762
    Joseph
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    What makes you think the question was primarily posed to you? It was a follow up to DY’s comment.

    #1280772
    Lilmod Ulelamaid
    Participant

    Which one? It was after mine, so I thought it was in response to my post. I realize now that it should have been slanted more to the right if it were a reply to my post, but I’m still not sure which post it’s in response to. Can you clarify for me? Thanks!

    #1280798
    Joseph
    Participant

    To DY’s comment right above mine. Your comment in-between was a “Reply” to his, so it is indented. But mine was posted as a primary comment, not using the “Reply” feature, so it is on the same level as DY’s, one below.

    Also notice the timestamp of your “Reply” comment between his and mine. Your comment was made after mine, so mine couldn’t have been a reply to yours.

    #1281360
    Lilmod Ulelamaid
    Participant

    DY – I’m still waiting for a response…

    #1281363
    Lilmod Ulelamaid
    Participant

    Joseph – I asked my mother in the end. She said that it’s not correct English; it’s a Yiddishism. She said that the correct way to say it would be: “There’s zero problem with…. , right?”

    (funny how our responses were so similar. I guess I’m my mother’s daughter…)

    #1281379
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
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    DY – I’m still waiting for a response…

    To what?

    #1281391
    Joseph
    Participant

    Your mom’s incorrect about the English quoted being incorrect. Her suggestion is also correct and may have made the understanding easier, but the original post is linguistically correct as well.

    #1281386
    Lilmod Ulelamaid
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    #1281427
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
    Participant

    I’ve had several responses on this thread.

    #1281704
    Lilmod Ulelamaid
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    in case that gets blocked: It was supposed to be the link for post #480

    #1281701
    Lilmod Ulelamaid
    Participant

    it was supposed to be th link for post #480

    #1281816
    ☕ DaasYochid ☕
    Participant

    That was already addressed in #185 and #454.

    #1282459
    FuturePOTUS
    Participant

    Lilmod, no disrespect intended, your position on Lashon Hara seems to be coming from something other than what it seems to be. Why do you have such an attachment to this issue?

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