well stated twisted.
The mitvah tantz IS a very important and holy part of the wedding. Since this is so only CLOSE family is encouranged to stay so there won’t be any shaylus with tznius and the such.
Minhagim are NOT to be mocked for ANY reason no matter if you understan them or not.
we have a lot of fun with our grab bag a couple days before everyone gets a name and has to get a cute thing for this person about this person and it shouldn’t cost more then a coupla dollars. It’s a ton of fun!!
work? what is work anyway?