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Matisyahu says;

‘when a person comes up to bais din shel mayla, all the excuses fade. this is one of them – no one ever died of dressing modest, and women have no reason to be outside all day anyway; kol kevudah bas melech penima……

TOTAL RUBBISH! Its a fact that the only three people who will not be exscused are:

1.Someone who was oiver on ‘Hamalbin Pnei Chaveiro Birabim

2.One who used a nickname while referring to a fellow Jew

I dont remember the third one , but the point is that with every other transgression, one will be able to compromise and negotiate his Din Vichesbon in exchange for Mitzvohs that he did!

I heard this at a shiur once given by Rav Avraham Twersky I think it was.

The Big one,

Maybe I overreacted but can you please bring a Mikor ? I dont think ‘Kol Kevudah Bas Melech Penima’refers to the literal aspect. I think it can also apply to a woman’s midos vs. the outside…if I am not mistaken