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    Why do we find that the same people who are very makpid on being DAN LEKAF ZECHUS, and judge all the non frum people in favour with the old card called tinuk shenishba, they don’t hesitate for a second before bashing anyone frummer then them….. no being dan lekaf zechus there….

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    nevuah
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    Because elites are always resented by society.

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    nevuah
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    I’m not talking about the humble folk but since we’ve become very materialistic and that’s the sum total of who we are….this is perhaps why we have become very resented.

    “Elitists are viewed negatively because their behavior marginalizes others, undermines the achievements of peers, and creates exclusive social circles that reinforce hierarchical divides. This attitude is often described as “childlike arrogance,” where individuals use status symbols or intellectual superiority to establish dominance and make others feel inferior, rather than fostering collaboration or inclusivity.

    The specific negative character traits associated with elitism include:

    Arrogance and Superiority: A belief that one is smarter, richer, or more talented than others, leading to a dismissive attitude toward those who do not meet their stringent standards of “excellence.”
    Lack of Empathy: A disregard for the struggles of others, often trivializing challenges by assuming that if the elitist could overcome obstacles, everyone else should be able to as well.
    Exclusivity and Gatekeeping: The creation of closed groups that exclude those not deemed worthy, denying them access to professional networks, social opportunities, or basic respect”

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    ??coffee addict
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    People understand “frummer” as more perfect since they’re “closer to Hashem” so it’s harder to be Dan lkaf zchus

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