She wants a mensch who is loving and thoughtful, makes a parnassah that is realistically going to be able to support a growing family; someone who is close with his own family AND hers, who knows how to laugh at himself, and roll with the punches when things go wrong, as they inevitably must; who will man up and not avoid responsibility to his wife and children (with the excuse that he is late for a shiur), and who will recognize and appreciate the very important tafkid that his wife has in making a Yiddishe home for him, and treat her accordingly.
Now ask me what HE wants.