B”H that you have your head is on such matters. Before anything daven for healthy and normal children with a good mazel! Don’t give Hashem any eitzos! I know of two families who had 4 of one, meaning one family had 4 boys and the other 4 girls. No, they did not know each other. Each was determined, a must, it had to be…. to have the next be girl/boy. Well, the one with the 4 girls had a boy and the one with the 4 boys had a girl. Sure you would think they were now pleased and exited. Well, maybe partially as both were given the challenge of a special needs child with that 5th child. Today with so much going on and such different nisyonos that some people are tested with, please first is gezunt! Don’t give Hashem any suggestions, He has the #1 plan for you and accept it with a smile.
