am i supposed to fit into my family? am i wrong for going “more?”
I’m assuming that with “more” – you meant more religious?
That is very frustrating.
I’m guessing that your relatives are giving you a hard time because when they see you, their conscience starts niggling at them and the truth hurts. That being said, you can be polite and firm at the same time and simply tell them that this is how you chose to dress, speak etc and it’s working for you and most importantly, it’s what you feel is right. I don’t think they would bring it up again after that.
Yes, it is hard, definitely.