Reply To: Say Little, Do Alot

Sometimes though, we might talk a lot about it, but don’t do much to apply it. We all make an effort to do nice chesed, but it’s sometimes hard to remember ahava when with people who are different than us hashkafically, because we are focused on their difference and how they are not doing things right.

I’m Not saying don’t argue, It’s good to have discussions. But it should be good discussions where you both learn, understand and grow. Not arguments that just attack and don’t go anywhere. It’s hard and takes self discipline to speak our mind calmly, but people hear us better when the words come from the heart instead of from an attack. – That’s why it’s important to look at the person’s good points we can build that love for our fellow Jew