the-art: I don’t know if that’s not gonna come back to bite you. If there’s one thing that has always turned me off about other people is a tattle tale.
If my parents had taken away my lock I would’ve left home. I actually have a friend whose parents didn’t like that she locked her door so often (this was before she didn’t anything rebellious or ‘curious’)
So they took away her lock. She left home within a few months and soon after stopped being shomer shabbos or kosher. So I don’t think they made the right move