SaysMe said,
“More importantly, im not quite following why this turned into a bashing thread…”
I feel that I did more basing than anyone else; at lease I posted the longest. My point was not to bash, but to make writer.at.heart415 aware of what she is dealing with and the possible problems that may come up.
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writer.at.heart415,
If you have not already, I would suggest that you take advantage of Sam2’s offer to answer questions. If you have been a frequent reader here, you would know that Sam2 is quite learned and straight in halacha.
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Ok, mods, sorry about that.