Reply To: Is there a tactful way to say Shadchan prefers money?

…what ever happened to us?

If the Sforim Hakdoshim tell us this is how its done, then this is how its done.

Do you really think that the Average Joe and Jennifer will start redding Shidduchim if those who were getting paid for it, stop getting paid and stop doing it? Me no think so.

Theres a reason Rabbonim tell us to pay.

You know the people walking on the main streets of your town doing and saying funny things…. r”l. Sometimes it feels like Shadchanim are a mm of an inch away from that, after dealing with difficult situations and difficult people. Thats how frustrating redding Shidduchim is.

Theres a reason Rabbonim tell us to pay.