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If anyone is aware of any well known Rov who feels the community norm in any frum community in the tri-state area is below $500 per side, Id love to hear the Rovs name. He should have no qualms about going public with his Psak.
IMHO Shadchanim should yield to ANY well known Rov’s estimation of the “community norm” and respect it (Rov who is willing to state it proudly and publicly and for the record).
I know its coming…. What constitutes a “well known Rov”? 😉 To that I answer, I define a “well known Rov” as any Rov consulted by large groups of people and quoted regularly and positively in frum newspapers. I think thats a fair criteria.