Trust me, he wont! Some people are just “koch-leffels/hock-a cheiniks”.
That was uncalled for. I don’t know Avram personally. From his posts here, though, he seems very reasonable and thought out. In fact, he is one of my favorites, and I find myself agreeing to most of what he writes. I think he is just unaware in this case, and you could have simply said that you see a different standard for shadchanus than he does.
There’s no reason to talk that way about a poster who is always polite and respectful.