Reply To: Is there a tactful way to say Shadchan prefers money?

DY – and of course the first person I would want to use to find me my bashert, middos and all, is someone who displays such a shining example. That goes for the attitude of many of the shadchanim represented here. B”H in the real world (out of town) things seem to run differently. And no, we don’t give candy dishes here either. But I bet if the rav okayed it, the shadchan would say thank you and mean it.