Oh, sorry, Syag, I didn’t mean to continue our debate on my mistaken assumption. I fully accept your explanation that you didn’t mean to ch’v prioritize feelings over halacha. It would have been completely out of character, and I was shocked at what I thought you were saying, and pleased and relieved that you never meant it.
I’m not sure what I said now to make you think I’m rehashing anything, I just meant that what you were actually complaining about, which is a bad attitude on the part of shadchanim, may appear different in this virtual context than in real life. That’s it. And I don’t like Logician’s stubborn negative view of your position, I just didn’t see where he had changed his mind.
So to be clear, I completely believe that you’re on the side of halacha, and please forgive me if I wasn’t clear enough on that.