LAer and OfCourse –
Take it as a compliment that no one has formed a mental picture of you. It means (at least the way I see it) that you are being judged for who you are, and not for the way you look.
Many people are ONLY judged by their appearances, despite having way more to offer that meets the eye.
I could most likely go back and re-read a few weeks worth of threads and put together a rough profile on each of you (age, gender, hobbies, education, shul / brand affiliation, marital status, ect) but what would that prove?
Look at it this way; you’re most likely in the top 80% of the planet, and squarely within your peer group (as are most of us).
Isn’t that a fair description? If so, I’ve got you both pretty much right on target!