you say you are only looking for a sfardi for your child, so you do feel a difference between ashkenazim and sfardim. If you are sfardi and only looking for a sfardi, it’ll anyhow make things simpler to go to a shadchan who knows sfardiim, no? I dont think it is meant in an insulting way. If you would be open to an ashkenazi, the shadchan would likely have a different approach. There are a few sfardi-ashkenazi couples in my family, but for the sfardim who uphold sfardi traditions, it is a different culture in some ways so i do understand the differentiation, don’t you?
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