My friend,
I definitely do get your situation. Also, if you have been learning in BMG type yeshivos for 6-8 years, you are not looking for a place like Landers.
There is no such thing as a BMG type yeshiva which allows college. And frankly, it is a bit too late for you to start doing college at nights–you need a real plan now.
That doesn’t mean you aren’t serious about your learning or that it isn’t foremost–it means that you are also serious about the rest of life.