Reply To: Older Bachur in the parsha

To says me and poppa bar abba: No I don’t want to stay in learning part time just to get a girl that fits(even though it is a worry of mine) I also believe in the idea of starting married life learning full time or part time It brings a whole different start to a marriage To dunno:I get the same reaction from shadchanim sometimes where are u?Here or there?Learning or school?When I go out the yeshivish girls are many times too sheltered and are kind of boring but the non yeshivish ones are not as frum as I would like its rough