hodulashem – totally agree! you would think your close friends would have a little more courtesy, but they dont 🙁
popa_bar_abba – I agree with you as well, if a random person sets you up with someone, it may end up working out, but there has to be some shaychus between boy x and girl y. It can’t just be, oh you are a female, and you are a male, let’s put you together to waste time.