BTW Joseph, I figured out where you got the Y from a short while later.
Regarding your “free” comment, it’s a good point but as you said, it’s only “generally” so no rayeh. Besides, you have no idea how long ago it was either.
If you are so interested in my marital status, you could have found it out a while ago in the thread about chanuka presents. No one picked up on it then, but I don’t mind if someone does.