Mw13
I never said that Bain Odom Lamokoim (BOLM) is mean. I said it is foreign, strange.
I believe that every frum person feels at home with BOLM only because he has been brought up that way. No one on their own would invent Shabbos, Niddah etc
Ben Odom La`chavaro (BAL): the whole world believes that a person must be decent .No one believes that that is an extra or foreign.
This is a fundemental difference.