vogue- you are not alone in your feelings. i do love my BY i think its a good school and the mission of Sarah Shcnerir amazing and noble. the problem is that some teachers have lost the who idea of BY and waht it was made for. First of all i think its amazing that 100 years ago it was shunned to think girls should go to a by and yet know we are shocked if a girl doesnt go there and yet when it comes to beleiving in female rights we are so against it yet thats exactly how bais yaakov started! (atleast where i went for by)
the fact that they dont welcome questions bugs me to no end, they want girls to be strong in their emunah yet if they ask a simple question of any sort they pounce on them seeing it as a attack agains the torah chalilah! its horrible how some girls go years with out having awnsers because they are scared how teachers will react to them.
dont get me wrong,im complete shomer shabbos, fully tznius… i love bais yaakov adn what it stands for, but im not sure if i agree to what it has become 🙁