Reply To: Brainwashing as Part of Chinuch

But some people might argue with that because they just simply can’t afford to have a husband sit and learn without contributing towards family finances, we are a part of a society that appears to expect girls to get married when they are 19, rabbis won’t let young couples use birth control in many cases, not everyone’s parents can afford go support married children, then nine months later, the wife gives birth to her first child and she might not even be twenty years old, and raising a child is expensive and suddenly they end up on food stamps, yet many by schools will hammer into their students that living this type of lifestyle is the only way to be considered successful. Is there anything not messed up about that.