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Its so interesting that you mention ruining the “perfect life.” By nature im a perfectionist. It took me a long time to come to terms with the fact that im not perfect. I fail just like everyone else. I do the best I can and after that, it isnt up to me anymore. About being happy… honestly,it is hard! Sometimes I dont want to get out of bed in the morning because I dont want to face a new day. But I started learning to appreciate the small things. A new outfit, a day off from school,a good mark on a test and now finally gorgeous weather! To answer your question: yes, it is possible to be happy despite problems. It takes work but its all worth it. Nobody can make you feel inferior without your consent. You need to believe in yourself and your worth. Concentrate on being happy and feeling fulfilled and it will come.