“I am frum not because i was raised that way! frumkeit to me something special, something beautiful and not forced down my throat! its something i want”
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In order to know what do you want, you need to know what exist, how it looks like, why it is so special. One knows all this, because he saw it in his parents home (FFB), another – because he saw this in his neighbor’s house (BT)