Many girls are anxiously waiting for the phone to ring and would be happy to go out at any time. Instead of whining that guys come hairier and you can’t go to Dougie’s, be happy that you are spending time with someone who is considering marrying you.
And guys are hairy, that’s just the way they come, clean shaven is unnatural for them.
Besides, it’s easier to go to milchig places, food is neat and pretty and occasionly cheaper.
Have fun! And you can still get engaged on Tisha B’av to save on L’chaim cake!