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Now, here’s another point of view.

Men have no business staring at other women. It’s true that I don’t have a man’s yetzer hora and I don’t understand what that entails.

But is it fair to your wife, beside of to yourself, when there are men that keep on staring and looking at women? Or talking to them in a certain way, I don’t have to elaborate. I have nebach seen wives, all dressed up and glamorous, they their dress and manner say “look at me, look at me”, because their husbands don’t look, they are busy staring at others.

These wives feel like something is missing and try to dress in a way that gets them attention because they feel it’s missing.

I’m not excusing those women’s behavour, but husbands should make sure their wives feel loved and appreciated and beautiful. And they should also say we don’t want you on the streets dressed untzniusdig. And the bottom line is that men who stare at other women should refrain from doing so. It makes their wives feel insecure.