Mr Melamed, any person or shadchan who does not give any answer when the answer is no, is beyond not menchlich. Any person like that requires adjectives that it is not possible to post in the CR, or to even express privately less than 2 months before Yom Kippur.
I’m trying to decide whether it’s inspirational that you control yourself in the months leading up to yom kippur or whether it’s pathetic that when it’s not within a few months of yom kippur you let your mouth flow freely