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yossi z.
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Loyal jew: excuse me, but I would like to respectfully but very strongly disagree with you on this. Just because a person is a bochur does not mean they are cut out to sit and learn all day. I think there needs to be a more realistic approach to these things. Yes it is great if one can realistically maintain such a lifestyle (which I am jealous of those who can), but most girls are being very unrealistic these days because they don’t fully understand what they are getting into. Not saying the guys do when they say the want to stay in learning either but kudos to those who can. Basically, I have nothing personally against girls or guys making such a lifestyle a top criteria, so long as they are realistic about it.