PBA: I don’t disagree with you. I do think though that the Rabbonim who Pasken (and Mohalim to do MBP) that MBP is required should take a hard look at the facts and realize the consequences of the P’sak, and what will happen in Shomaiym if they are responsible for killing Yiddishe Neshamos shelo K’Halacha. Being “Machmir” (if it is that) is nice, but not when it is “Asi Lidei Misah”. They had better be really sure that they are correct.
Do you think a mohel should ask parents if theyd like MBP done?
If he is a Mohel that does MBP, yes. If not, he should tell the parents that he does not do MBP. I’m for full disclosure.