Reply To: Be kind to divorcees

Rebyidd,

I don’t know where some of you are drawing your conclusions from. Do you know for a fact that divorcees are offended by offers of help? Because the ones I know couldnt appreciate it more. So I think you and Gamanit just decided on your own that this is what it is without bothering to find out the truth. How could you possibly make such a generalization? Did you take a survey? How many divorcees do you knew who were offended by offers of help? It sounds just plain ridiculous. Or does it maybe make you feel less of an obligation and less guilt to think you don’t need to offer help or extend invitations because probably the divorcees wouldn’t want it anyway???