Reply To: Is there a diplomatic, kind way to give Mussar?

I beg to differ. The Torah says that one is obligated to give Mussar when they see another Jew sinning. And believe me, this problem is prevalent, and these are not new Baalei Teshuva doing it. I know many of them, and you can clearly see that some are married to husbands who are Yeshivish-dressed…. I’ve seen the transformation in many of them who used to dress properly but now don’t and I believe it’s because they see so many others doing it, they’re just trying to “fit in” with what’s unfortunately become the norm. Many send their kids to very Frum yeshivas and know how to dress properly when they go for interviews in yeshiva or to PTA.