Reply To: Please Be Mochel…

Goq: Thank you, and be ‘gebentched’ with a real ??? ???? ??????.

SiDi: Thank you for your kind, warm words. May HaShem shower you with his blessings. And v’chol tuv selah.

Golfer: An EXCELLENT question!

And my personal (that’s admitting that deep down I’m a person) answer is that I try really hard not to antagonize, cause pain, hurt, discomfort or etc. to anyone in the first place. Yes, I’m human (that again) and I do slip (boy do I), but I always try to make up as soon as possible. I know that “pirud levavos”, “sinas chinam” and the like are grave offenses, they cause much harm, and I take it most seriously.

There’s just one difference between here and in real life. In real life, face to face, I won’t end up doing much harm (I’m not such a “in-your-face” type), whereas here, being (supposedly) anonymous, and also not seeing another party, I may end up hurting and annoying another. Then again, it’s also easier to ask on-line, anonymously, my (big) ego won’t suffer much, whereas in real life …

I do know I have annoyed one poster here, am still waiting for her Mechila… <Waiting… press and key>