gavra_at_work:
I was quoting the S”A to make the exact opposite point of what you accuse me of. I was saying that the fact that the S”A lists a specific case (and the Rema adds one more specific case) where you don’t have to listen to your parents when they tell you what to do with your life implies that in general they do have a say in how you live your life. I was responding to Sam2 who had said “Why do you assume the Mitzvah of Kibbud applies when they are trying to tell you what to do with your own life?”.