I agree with sem613- don’t know where you are looking for girls- but we are here and that is what alot of us are looking for…
Also, most girls don’t understand that it has to do with age- if a guy who is 21/22 and is working and has been since they were 20/21- is different then a guy who is 23, has a set Seder, and works/ in college- alot of people don’t differentiate based on age (which they should) and just give a blanket learner/earner etc.
Adam3 and friend in Flatbush- keep looking- girls who get that do exist