I feel like I should comment yet as they say, if you don’t have anything nice to say, don’t say anything at all. What I will say is that I have come from both sides (dating in Yeshiva and dating while being a working boy) and where the shidduch world has come to in today’s day and age is frankly quite a mess on both sides. I would like to propose that we as a community get to the root of this rather than looking at surface issues.
One thing though, I’ve become one of the coffee room ghosts so you could hear from me soon or like the last couple stints I have pulled, you may not see or hear from me for quite a while. Take your chances.
Ciao