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oomis
Best Bubby EVER
Hence my comment to go after working girls”
See, I KNEW you did not realize how you sounded, and it was not intentional on your part. You referred to working girls as “setting your sights LOWER” (my emphasis)and that was an extremely disrespectful thing to say about “working” girls, who as I pointed out ARE in fact the ones that these Kollel boys are marrying anyway, no?
Oh I realized and then some. My comment was meant to be cynically referring to non-kollel girls as working girls in the most pejorative sense possible, which is how some kollel types have actually referred to such girls in my presence.
Just because the Elites look down on such girls does not mean that the OP should. But he does. If he considers it setting his sights lower, as I believe he does right now, I suggest he consider them anyway. Because fighting the system isn’t going to get him what he wants.