DY- exactly correct, but let me state both halves (you mentioned one half) . My assumption is that many girls are out there would be well suited to a learner earner as its called, but most of them nevertheless try to get shidduchim with full time learners. Similarly, there are many boys out there who would be suitable for such a girl, but most of those boys (our OP included) see it as settling so they go after the type of girl who doesnt want them.
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