Squeak, if the first half is correct, then the OP, for practical purposes, is correct, because although the right type exist, they won’t go out with him.
My (admittedly limited) experience tells me that there are plenty of girls who describe themselves as hodulashem describes herself, but not too many boys such as the OP describes himself. In other words, the girls feel as if the working boys they go out with are not on their level of Yiddishkeit.