Reply To: Working Guys

I think some people are missing the point of what I am trying to bring out. Its the attitude towards working guys that people look down upon. When I choose to leave learning full time and go to work, some people were SHOCKED! They said that I should ‘stick it out’ in yeshiva a few more months, get married, and then go to work. I am sorry but I am not trying to fool anyone. If I am not up to learning full time then, with the encouragement from my Rabbaim, I went to college and got a job. I believe hodulashem it the nail on the head. Stop trying to poison girls minds that they all need learning guys.

Maybe if the attitude can change that working guys are NOT second class, if would help the shidduch crisis a lot faster then the age gap issues.