C777: Well, the people I give information for seem to get engaged, so I must be doing something right. 🙂
It is though. Because I do, in addition, have a prepared story for each friend that illustrates the few things I do volunteer. If they are nice, I help them rephrase into something I’m willing to answer.
I think they get a better picture from talking to me than from the rest of the she’s-extroverted-but-not-too-extroverted, pretty-but-tznius-and-not-vain, and smart-but-will-respect-your-son crowd.