Reply To: How to answer questions regarding a shidduch

Daas “Gefen, moot point for this case if the caller doesn’t know your daughter, but if she did, since tznius standards differ, she probably would be asking your daughter’s opinion according to her own standards.”

So my daughter should answer according to her own standards? Then the answer would be “No – she does not dress tzniusdik” but that’s the whole problem here, she doesn’t want to say that (and I agree with her). It’s so harsh. We are trying to find a nice way to put it without ruining anything and without sounding “holier than thou”.