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DY – 😛 I wouldn’t even consider that. The question to a halachik question would have to be a halachik answer, but with a disclaimer or clarification about the compatibility. I think it would be awful if we started answering halachik questions with subjective answers. If you are asked if he is koveia itim, and to you there should be a 3 hour minimum, you can say yes to that question if the boy only learns one hour because it is still halachically accurate. If he just reads the Yated every night you would be lying if you said yes, even if the girl would consider that gevaldik. Halacha is halacha, hashkofa is hashkofa, and as far as I am concerned, emes is emes.
And I add for Brony’s sake that that doesn’t change their value as a human being, it is just stating the facts as they stand.