Reply To: How to answer questions regarding a shidduch

I think we (my daughter and I) are more confused now than we were before. Although, we do hear everyone’s point here. It just seems so complex and confusing. But Syag (and others who said this), you are 100% right – tight skirts and showing the knees is NOT tznius. That is a fact. And you’re also right that the boy’s level of what is acceptable also does not determine what is tznius. So maybe I’m not as confused as I thought. It’s just finding a way to answer these questions that’s kind of uncomfortable, especially for a girl who is also in the parsha.