Does there have to be a “hard and fast” rule about whose minhagim to observe?
Let me ask this question: If I can, on my own, choose to become a Chosid (Belz, Satmar, Lubavitch, Breslov, whatever…), then why can’t an “intermarried” couple make that decision on their own?
Likewise, if a Chossid can “leave” his chassidus and join the Yeshivish community on his own, then why can’t an “intermarried” couple decide to do so on their own?
The Wolf