haifagirl said;
“My rabbi won’t say no, but he won’t say yes, either.”
What kind of rabbi is this? He wont say no?
Maybe i’m just confused as to your request?
Why not find a guy that is nice, kind, maybe not so handsome,
or settle in some other way, and marry him, (if you are considering whatever else u said) if u want it that bad why not settle a little. As long as he’s a good guy, what else do u need?
Best case you are happy, worst case you get divorced.
Then you still get what you want, halachically.
Just don’t get married with a plan to get divorced.
I hope i’m making myself clear, or else it may come out
sounding wrong. Chazal say, that for a woman, it is better to marry someone that isn’t her knight in shining armor,
than to stay alone. But it isn’t a direct quote.
I don’t know if the they had shining armor in those times.)
Maybe matte. 🙂