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I was once going through a tough time in my life and a rav I consulted told me you must be some sort of tzaddik that hashem would send you such a nisayon. (This is not to brag but just an illustration) I think you too are now being put through a great nisayon. You have a tremendous opportunity here to provide gentle tochecha and keep sholom. I wish I had some sage advice to give you. I agree with Mamash, the best advice is to consult a rav who can guide you on this. Also choose the rav you ask wisely. Not every rav has a knack for handling things like this. I don’t envy you but surly you must be some sort of tzaddik to have had a nisayon like this sent to you. Don’t mess it up. Ha ha, no pressure right?