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ironpenguin
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You make a good point, its an important one. Guys need to have feedback on what they’re doing and a girl’s contribution to furthering their relationship is a strong point of connection. It’s totally fine to suggest date ideas or offer to bring food along. It shows that this relationship is important to you and that you want it to continue. Do it gently so that the boy doesn’t think that you’re doubting his dating abilities.

Again, its a non-traditional thing to do. Most girls I know would not do this because they are afraid of leaving the mold of the girl, who does not actively contribute to dating.