DY: “I actually think there are few learner/earners, but a lot of girls looking for one.”
You think the vast majority of boys in the non-chasidish chareidi communities choose to learn full-time for notably longer than three years post-marriage?
“if a boy is serious about his learning, he likely is planning to learn full time for more than 2-3 years”
How would you define what constitutes being “serious about his learning” (presumably more than just how long he plans to learn full-time) and at minimum how many years would someone serious about his learning likely be learning full-time post-marriage?